Despicable

There is a fine between sanity and insanity. Many balance the rope with ease .

 Those who slip will definitely get a name attached to their behaviour.

Recently Stalking has made it back in the newspapers after a long hiatus.

After reading a article on the Mind Of A Stalker i have come down to the conclusion that ones mind can play tricks on any individual. One cannot easily shake of fantasy and reality as at times they come wrapped as a desirable object pleasing ones eye.

As Buddha says one has to control the mind and not let the mind control you. Even the best of minds can succumb to a trap of the mind controlling you.

Superstition in a way can do that and make you do things that one would not do. Another article today brushed upon peoples superstitions. For instance there are people who believe in a  temple granting visas to Holy water in a dirty creek of Mumbai.

Either ways Stalkers are classified into 5 types.

1. Rejected Stalker: He is someone you know and may have been in a relationship with. Individuals who have experienced unwanted end of a close relationship with romantic partner, colleague, parents or acquaintance fall in this category.

2. Love Obsessed Stalker: They tend to believe that once they manage to contact the woman she will begin to have a relationship with them. They cannot shake off fantasies entertained in reel life and expect the same in real life.

3. Predator Stalker: They fantasise about people in a obsessive pathological way.

4. Grudge Stalker:  Stalker is driven by a sense of injustice. Their behaviour reflects their perception that they have been humiliated and treated unfairly viewing them as a victim.

5. Erotomaniac: This is my favourite and i have lived with this as ones mind can play tricks with them. It happens automatically. Not necessary that one should think about it. It can happen spontaneously.

Erotomania is a delusion in which the affected person believes that another person is in love with him.


With all of this i have come down to a conclusion that anybody can fall in either of this categories as one is confused and cannot think straight. Ones own mind can play ugly dirty games. One should rule out fantasy from reality to pursue life as desired.